What you can do?
As with all safeguarding matters, you must do something. You cannot pass it off as being “part of their culture” or worry about disrespecting the family’s beliefs. While different faiths / beliefs / communities / families have different practices, the definitions of physical, emotional, sexual abuse and neglect still hold true.
It may be that you do not feel that you have enough knowledge or experience of a particular family’s culture or practice, however, all you need to ask yourself is: is this harming or likely to harm the child? There is always a duty to keep the child safe, but when dealing with any allegation of child abuse linked to faith, belief, and/or cultural practices, agencies must also engage with individuals, families and in some cases the wider communities to challenge the belief that underlies the harm. You may have a role in this, however your primary focus remains the safety of the child.
If you have concerns, you must act immediately and speak with your designated safeguarding lead.
Note: In the case of FGM (in England and Wales), if a girl discloses that she has had FGM carried out on her, or what could be FGM has been seen by a teacher or regulated health or social care professional (e.g. during nappy-changing/other forms of intimate care or medical care), the said person has a mandatory duty to also report direct to the police on 101.
Ensure children/young people know the risks – talk about these issues at an age appropriate level in the same way we do about consent, drugs and other issues.
Check children and young people have safe relationships – in their family, with their peers and with staff. Create the environment where it’s ok to talk even about the most difficult things.
Spot the signs and know what to do – use the checklists above, your safeguarding procedures and be confident in raising these issues as a possibility.
Take action – and keep taking action until you know they are safe.